consistent parenting advice consistent parenting advice

Ways To Improve Self Esteem

Child Self Esteem


ways to improve self esteem Learning new skills and gaining mastery over themselves are great ways to improve self esteem in children.

Sure, praise your children and tell them you are proud, both of them and for them.

However, children learn best when they know it for themselves by their own experience.

Boosting self esteem by telling them they are great kids is no substitute for gaining this knowledge through their own personal experience.



Teach Them HOW
Rather Than Doing it For Them

Think about this saying in relation to boosting self esteem in children

Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day.
Teach a man to fish and you have fed him for a lifetime.


Give your children the opportunities to improve self esteem by experiencing pride in their own achievements and by gaining mastery of new skills.

  • Confidence comes about through experience - Experience comes about by doing it yourself. Don't do it for them - step back and allow your children the opportunities to get the experience for themselves.
  • Encourage them to make a commitment to a new project.
  • Allow them the time they need to see it through.
  • Make it possible for them to learn to master their bodies through physical accomplishment by participation in sports, games, music and dance.
  • Be an encourager of involvement in sporting activities. Be there on the side line watching and cheering them on.
  • Give them every opportunity for responsibility at home so they learn to be responsible at school.

  • Encourage situations that allow them to practice generosity, to apologise, to be forgiving, to share.
HOWEVER..............in creating these wonderful opportunities for your children you must also allow them to experience disappointment when it occurs, to make mistakes, to confront problems, and to experience failure.

If you don't, you are feeding them fish for a day rather than setting them up as fishermen for a lifetime.

As parents we want to protect our children from all life's pain and discomfort, however, no matter how much we try, it is an impossible task.

If we carefully monitor our child's activities and achievements, and pay attention to whatever unfolds in their daily lives, we will be able to provide our children with great opportunities for emotional growth and understanding through life's knocks and shocks.

This is how resilience is built.

How to Build Self Confidence?
Encourage Risk Taking in Your Children

Encourage Risk Taking


Experience has taught me that there is no need to set up these moments. Rather, life itself takes care of that.

ways to improve self esteem As a parent, your task is not to quickly step in and rescue your child when you see disappointment or failure looming.

Instead be your child's emotional boundary at that moment.

  • Be strongly there for them. Help them take stock of the situation.


  • Encourage them to name and find some understanding about the feeling.


  • Help them to talk about their feelings around the disappointment of failure.


  • Be aware of modelling this behaviour for your children.


  • Always be aware of your child's age and stage of development.


  • Always pay attention to their emotional limitations and monitor your response for appropriateness.


  • Have the courage to be a brave parent and an enabler of your child's growth through these ways to improve self esteem for your child.


    Self Esteem Affirmations

    raising confident children Ways to Improve Self Esteem

    Get into the habit of telling your children:

  • I noticed today that you were easily on time.

  • I noticed how thoughtful you were.

  • I saw you really thinking carefully.


  • Reinforce their self esteem by noticing, by consideration, and by listening.

    Bedtime is a wonderful opportunity to observe ways to improve self esteem. Before your children go off to sleep talk about the day together.

    Let them know that you observe, respect and consider them.

    Help them to reach upwards towards their best potential by giving them opportunities for practice.

    Don't Do it For Them!


    Low Self Esteem As a parent we all want our children to have friends and respond well to others. It greatly boosts a child's low self esteem to be singled out and made to feel special by one parent or the other.

    Read about Raising Confident Children

    Self Improvement advice, ideas and tips focusing on stress management, memory improvement, self confidence, anger management and finding happiness - interspersed with several highly inspiring, contextually relevant self improvement quotes.

    From Ways to Improve Self Esteem back to Raising Children

    family friendly site



    Search this Site:-

    Custom Search

    Free Newsletter

    Subscribe to
    Be Consistent
    to receive monthly tips, ideas, quotes and updates from Consistent Parenting. Enjoy!

    Email

    Name

    Then

    Don't worry - your e-mail address is totally secure.
    I promise to use it only to send you
    Be Consistent.


    Site News:

    Visit our sister site!
    Authentic-Self.com
    authentic self
    How to become
    your authentic self

    Recommended Sites:

    A comprehensive baby books guide
    for the under 3's.

    Early Detection for Breast Cancer is vital for women to help themselves. Learn about the causes of breast cancer, risk, self breast exam, and diet

    Our Reviews
    "Really good site, fast loading, well organized and full of useful advice. You have everything so well laid out, everything is easy to find. I will visit this site again and again, as a parent there is a lot here for me to learn. Well done."

    Paula
    reflectionsunderthebodhitree.blogspot.com/
    "Absolutely fantastic !! Your site is full of very effective and up to date information not to mention very beneficial to parent's of todays world. I am definitely a fan of your cause and would love to share your link on my website. Let me know! DorothyL@womensselfesteem.com"

    Dorothy
    womensselfesteem.com
    "Fabulous site with tons of practical information! Great graphics, well laid out with easy navigation. I am sure many parents and families will turn to your site for help! Well done. "

    Suzie
    early-detection-for-breast-cancer.com
    "I love your site- because in mine you'll find me "preaching about parents being consistent". :) Lay out is ok- and there is a wealth of information.. I may use it in the future to link back to- great stuff!!"

    tessa@nannyu.com
    NannyU.com
    "Terrific site! You have so many good tips for parenting and they all make a lot of sense! Particularly useful is the section on discipline as this is an area where many parents come unstuck. Thanks for the sound advice."

    Robert
    thezeitgeistischanging.blogspot.com/
    Get your own reviews, free traffic at





    XML RSS
    What is this?
    Add to My Yahoo!
    Add to My MSN
    Add to Google



    Top Health Blogger - Wellsphere


    ADD TO YOUR SOCIAL BOOKMARKS: add to BlinkBlink add to Del.icio.usDel.icio.us add to DiggDigg
    add to FurlFurl add to GoogleGoogle add to SimpySimpy add to SpurlSpurl Bookmark at TechnoratiTechnorati add to YahooY! MyWeb
    | Home | Contact Me | Links | Link to us | Privacy Policy| Blog|
    Copyright© 2007-2011.Consistent Parenting Advice.com
    Page copy protected against web site content infringement by Copyscape