Boost Self Esteem Through Play
Children boost self esteem through play by developing an understanding of themselves and others, increasing their mastery and knowledge of their physical world,
and learning to
Play is essential to children's development to boost self esteem by
contributing to their physical social cognitive emotional
and spiritual wellbeing
Unfortunately, time and opportunities for free play
reduced for many children today.
Learning to have the ability to focus
and concentrate for long periods, as well as the opportunity to boost self esteem comes about through free play.
By free play we mean opportunities to play freely and safely without the demands of adults and with no time constraint. To be able to let go into the present moment and become lost and absorbed in the activity, alone or playing with others.
For children, play is their work time.
Why the Loss of Play Time?
Why are children being deprived of play opportunities?
In the ever increasing marketing of hi-technology games for children,
educational DVD's, television programmes and other structured
activities, children are losing their natural ability for creativity.
Parents often follow media and marketing trends in the hope that they will boost self esteem and intelligence in their children. Many forget
how important it is for a child to lose himself in concentrated,
Another reason is that in many places, children's free time playing out
of doors has been greatly reduced, if not curtailed completely, because
of fear of strangers, media publicity of child attacks, and an
increasing sense that neighbourhoods are no longer safe.
Play creates constant opportunities for inner growth and mastery
, as adults respond to their child's innate imaginative play.
For example, in games such as hide and seek, peek a boo, and playing pretend house,
children can:learn to interact with other children and adults learn about taking turns learn about sharing learn about communicating learn about achieving masterylearn about playing
As toddlers develop, pretend play
often takes centre stage in their
playing time and many a first time parent is simply awed at their
toddler's ability to initiate and understand the concept of
Children learn and express what they feel and
understand about their world through complex action during play and
take on intricate role playing.
Many parents are shocked to see themselves as examples of expert
mimicry, and often recognise with dismay as well as mirth, some of their
own actions being copied and practiced by their toddlers.
Boost Self Esteem Activities:
Schedule large amounts of free time
Suggestions For Supporting Children's Imaginative Play
Let your children know they can relax and concentrate.
Let your child know that he doesn't have to hurry, doesn't have to
clean up right away, can make a big mess, will have all morning, or all
day, or until next Friday, or whatever.
Talk with your children about their play
Sometimes play with them fully so they see and know how much you value play.
Get involved in providing suggestions, activities, ingredients, props,
play clothes and ideas. Child proof some areas so that safety is not too problematic.
Create special play times when you can tell your child :
You don't have to hurry
You can have all the time you need.
How To Promote Play To Boost Self Esteem For Your Toddler
As A Parent:
- Needs a safe environment in which to play and explore
- Enjoys sandpits, swings, slides, playgrounds, swimming pools and walking
- Likes to imitate by pretending to perform adult tasks
- Benefits from play in water, dirt, sand and with leaves, sticks and
- Enjoys large cardboard boxes and many other non-toy play things.
- Do provide the time and space for concentrated play activities.
- Childproof and create safe play areas
- Do allow your child to help with chores, work at the kitchen bench, do
- Do read to your child at least daily
- Provide your child with housekeeping toys such as a toy vacuum, pots
and pans, brooms and mops, cleaning cloths
- Control television watching and technological toys
- Walk outside often, play in nature, explore, ramble and swim together
- Never underestimate the power of music to relax, enliven and teach your
Boost Self Esteem by:
Creating Parenting Magic
- inject fun into the constant responsibility of parenting.
Boost Self Esteem through:
which allows you to nurture your child's spirituality by creating magic through dancing, music and nature, and through sharing feelings and imagination.
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Young children can act aggressively when things don't go their way - they lash out, bite, kick, hit and punch - all highly embarrassing to their parents!
Toddler Behavior - Anger -
Many parents are greatly surprised by their child's behavior when he/she displays anger. A little one's anger can seem so powerful and at times so personally directed, that it is hard not to react powerfully back. Parents can then be taken by surprise at the intensity behind their own emotions and experience considerable shame in the way they are confronted by their tot's aggression, tantrums and out right rage.
Temper Tantrums occur all too frequently!
Dealing with toddler temper tantrums, rage and sudden displays of anger, will be much easier for us if we disabuse ourselves of the whole idea that expressing anger is wrong.